Ce however is her decision to call sensory details carnal Maybe it s me Maybe it s an old movie that I never saw but heard "plenty about in my youth Carnal Knowledge but carnal seems all wrong in the list of "about in my youth Knowledge but carnal seems all wrong in the list of for good writers Class you think carnallyOh well My problem maybe If you re writing a memoir or considering it worth a look If you re a Karr fan why not But me I was left ambivalentPS Of all the memoirs she discussed at great or not great nough length the most intriguing to me were Frank Conroy s Stop Time and Michael Now a Buddhist Herr s Dispatches I plan to check both out at some point thanks to Mary s uotes I received a copy of this book from the publisher in xchange for an honest review The book comes out September 15The ueen of memoir who also teaches classes in memoir writing has published a book about writing memoir It couldn t get better I love how Mary Karr writes despite not yet finishing one of her memoirs She is uite self referential in this text which ven she seems uncertain about Many of the references will only make sense if you have read the books she is referencing so I leave this book feeling as if I need to go read the seven pages of suggested reading before I can really weigh in on the benefit of this one I loved her discussions of truth of trust of voice I think anyone considering publishing any form of their own story is likely to benefit from the advice in this slim volumeThese uotes may not be in final copyNo matter how self aware you are memoir wrenches at your insides precisely because it makes you battle your very self your neat analyses and tiny xcuses S One of my favorite anecdotes Mary Karr tells in this bookIn a private workshop with Etheridge Knight an x con from Mississippi and Wish You Were Here: An Essential Guide to Your Favorite Music Scenes—from Punk to Indie and Everything in Between elsewhere ashy of knee and with hands rustynough to strike a match on he scolded me about the pretentious pages I turned in Way before poetry slams he used to take us into bars or onto crowded buses to read out loud Facing a listing drunk or a footsore commuter you figure out pretty uick how irrelevant much of your drivel isI love this uote not just because I love picturing writing students reading aloud on buses but also because it sums up Mary Karr so well Etheridge Knight must have succeeded in draining all the pretentiousness out of her because for all her obvious copious talent she comes across as very real honest and unfussy in The Art of MemoirThe things I appreciated about this book were many I loved her focus on The Day Christ Was Born emotion and on being brutally honest with yourself in your writing uestioning your own interpretation ofvents and being willing to build your uestioning into the story you re telling really the only way to write a successful memoir no Karr further 5 Nights: Sinful Delights Boxed Set encourages truthfulness by reminding the aspiring memoir writer that what happened to you isnough in other words there s simply no need to The Seventh Witch embellish James Frey style In fact if you do you not only risk losing the reader s trust you also miss the opportunity toxplore and do justice to what actually did happen to you Another valuable bit of advice I d never heard And the Miss Ran Away with the Rake expressed uite this way before Present information in the way you received it If your father was an alcoholic chances are no one came up to you and announced this in plain English You received this information gradually and in various ways that all added up The challenge is to convey this to the reader in similar fashion difficult maybe but it sasy to see how this leads to a better piece of writing in just about very circumstanceMary Karr teaches memoir writing at Syracuse and The Art of Memoir is clearly that classes winnowed into book form As such there are a few chapters that discuss specific memoirs Karr clearly finds superior and that are probably on her syllabus The first of these chapters was about Nabokov s Speak Memory I ve never read Speak Memory and I ll admit that this chapter didn t make me want to so I Apy patient writer and spiritual seeker recovered alcoholic and “black belt sinner” providing a uniue window into the mechanics and art of the form that is as irreverent insightful and ntertaining as her own work in the genreAnchored by The Pocket Wife excerpts from her favorite memoirs and anecdotes from fellow writers’xperience The Art of Memoir lays bare Karr’s own process Plus all those inside stories about how she dealt with family and friends get told and the dark spaces in her own skull probed in depth As she break.
Free read The Art of MemoirI can honestly say not one page I ve The Color of Our Sky ever published appears anywhere close to how it came out in first draft A poem might take sixty versions I am not much of a writer but I am a stubborn little bulldog of a reviser Fantastic on audio Here MaryKarr discusses the memoir process MUCH complex than Iver dreamed She sights several authors works plus bits her own My TBR is now several memoirs deeper and I m lated A must read for fans of the genre I received this as an ARCThis book is advertised as a book about the art of memoir writing But it s about so much the art of beautiful words the art of truth and the art of living an xamined life While I initially thought this book would be an interesting read but ultimately not relevant to me as a fiction writer I came away with lots of insights that I believe will hel This is one of the best books "on writing I ve ver read I strongly recommend it for "writing I ve ver read I strongly recommend it for writers not just writers of memoir This is one of the strangest books I ve read and I am finding it almost impossible to write a review Maybe it s because I was Cabaret: A Roman Riddle expecting something different I wasxpecting a book that would help writers who wanted to write a memoir This book does not do that The Art of Memoir is of a memoir about writing a book on how to write a memoir Yes it is as disjointed as this description sounds Apparently Mary Karr is a messy teacher and I can understand why after reading this Bits of advice are fractured with xamples of memoirs and then confused with about the author s obsessive uest for the truthI think a book on the art of memoir should offer practical advice This is a how to book written in a literary style The two genres do not mix I read this book not because I anticipate writing a memoir of my own but because I love the form and was interested in how it s done Some of the best books I ve ver read have been memoirs so it was fascinating to get a behind the scenes look at what a memoirist goes through to get the truth in the pages
Of A Book Mary Karr Does This Beautifully But She book Mary Karr does beautifully but she teach a much in demand graduate seminar at Syracuse University besides having written three about her own life so she knows what she s talking aboutI have to admit up front that I read her first book Liar s Club many years ago and didn t like it because I felt it was a bit whiny and she was too sensitive about things that wouldn t have phased me at all as a child It s always hard to judge a book read in fits and starts When you re busier than usual you pick up your book of the moment at odd times And ven if you nd All Roads Lead Home every day like I do reading in bed the busyness of your life often leads to anarly date with Hypnos the Greek god of sleep Thus another start nds only now in a sleeping fitI rallied at the nd of Mary Karr s book however taking the last 100 pp by storm It helped My 3 stars began to lean four ish It s a short book for one thing and seemingly wears three hats At times it wants to be a how to book on writing written by a professor Karr who teaches memoir writing at university Syracuse I believe At times it wants to be literary criticism going off on certain memoirs and their merits It ven nds with a long and I do mean long list of must read memoirs And finally at times it is straight up biography or memoir of memoir writing Mary Here s me writing Liar s Club And me waving as I write Cherry Here I am again this time Lit up With it comes background information of the writer at work and at war or peace with the subjects of her memoir Mom Daddy Sis Hubby lover tinker tailor soldier spyOne thing Karr makes clear is the power of voice If you can t stablish voice in your writing stick to your day job Despite the identity crisis in this book s somewhat scattered approach at times it feels like the syllabus of her course itself OK class where the hell was I when we last met Whatever Today I ve decided to talk about Karr s voice comes across in spades One annoyan. Credited with sparking the current memoir xplosion Mary Karr’s The Liars’ Club spent than a year at the top of the New York Times list She followed with two other smash bestsellers Cherry and Lit which were critical hits as wellFor thirty years Karr has also taught the form winning graduate teaching prizes for her highly selective seminar at Syracuse where she mentored such future hit authors as Cheryl Strayed Keith Gessen and Koren Zailckas In The Art of Memoir she synthesizes her xpertise as professor and ther. ,
Orried I d find similar chapters deadly Fortunately that turned out not to be the case the chapter discussing Maxine Hong Kingston s The Woman Warrior was fascinating and I couldn t turn the pages fast nough when she started talking about Michael Herr s Dispatches a book I d never heard of before but now want to read as soon as possible Karr uotes from the book at length and unpacks xactly how and why it works so well an invaluable xplication for any sort of writerThe front flap of my ARC compares this book to Anne Lamott s Bird by Bird but I don t really agree with this comparison I think Bird by Bird can be of value to just about anyone Just Cause even people who don t write at all orven read very much Mary Karr s book on the other hand is really just for writers and for people who love good writing and want to know how it s done But this isn t a limitation it s the very thing that makes The Art of Memoir such a fantastic readI won this ARC in a First Reads giveaway here on Goodreads As someone who aspires to write a memoir of his own one day I found The Art of Memoir both ngaging and ncouraging Writing a memoir reuires than just journaling memories onto a page The practice forces you to punch yourself in the gut multiple times as you uncover the ugliest and most personal truths about yourself Mary Karr offers several sage pieces of advice on how to do just that ranging from the importance of remaining truthful to the skill of always addressing your target audience She uses a gamut of memoirs including her own to use as case studies for her argumentsOn a deeperLevel I Enjoyed KarrI njoyed Karr mphasis on voice Therapy and memoir writing differ in that the latter pushes you to scrutinize yourself with unrelenting o 45 I haven t read Mary Karr s memoirs but I certainly will after reading her masterful survey of memoirs old and new During her Texas upbringing full of alcoholism and abuse a first person coming of age story putatively true never failed to give the child me hope that I could someday grow up and get out of the mess I was in Every memoirist had lived to tell the tale Over the last decade memoirs have rapidly become one of my favorite genres I read them for a cathartic ffect similar to what Karr describes but also out of sheer curiosity how have other people found purpose in and made sense of their daily lives No matter the outward differences between us I can sense a deep parity between myself and almost any autobiographical writerI would recommend this book to anyone who reads andor secretly wants to write memoirs for the latter group there is a wealth of practical advice here on topics such as choosing the right carnal details not sexual or not only sexual but physicality generally correcting your facts and misconceptions figuring out a structure and settling on your voice Along the way Karr discusses a number of favorite memoirs in detail sometimes ven line by line Wild by Cheryl Strayed Stop Time by Frank Conroy A Childhood by Harry Crews Maya Angelou s books Speak Memory by Nabokov and so on Plus there s an appendix of recommended reading that looks like an incredible resource and will surely bloat my TBR ven furtherThis is a very readable and uotable book Karr has been teaching memoirs at Syracuse University for years now so she "s thought deeply about what makes them work or not and sets her theories out clearly for readers at any level "thought deeply about what makes them work or not and sets her theories out clearly for readers at any level familiarity Here s one uote from the very nd of the book in which she gives us an idea of how important memoirs can beI still feel awe for us for the great courage all of us show in trying to wring some truth from the godawful mess of a single life To bring oneself to others makes the whole planet less lonely The nobility of verybody trying boggles the mind None of us can ver know the value of our lives or how our separate and silent scribbling may add to the amenity of the world if only by how radically it changes us one and by on. S down the key lements of great literary memoir she breaks open our concepts of memory and identity and illuminates the cathartic power of reflecting on the past; anybody with an inner life or complicated history whether writer or reader will relateJoining such classics as Stephen King’s On Writing and Anne Lamott’s Bird by Bird The Art of Memoir is an legant and accessible The Perfect Christmas Gift exploration of one of today’s most popular literary forms a tour de force from an accomplished master pulling back the curtain on her craf.