[Kindle] The Control Book BY Peter Masters

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Unication puts forward how he believes the situation stands and finishes the chapter by posing general uestions to provoke further thought between the Dom and their submissive Masters says he s writing for male dom female sub as that Lords of Life: A History of the Kings of Thailand is his background but thedeas and siturations are generic and can apply n any form of Ds relationshipDefinitely one of the best self help books on this aspect of sexuality wanted t to be good unfortunately pretty basic There are many aspects of control which I haven t dealt with for various reasons p 167 because t was easier to throw some obvious platitudes on the page and call t a bookI am not nvolved n BDSM Simon Spatz: From Holocaust to Halifax, A Story of Survival and Success in any way I wanted to read this to counter some of the ridiculous fiction versions of BDSM that I ve readn the last couple of years I have to say Peter Masters comes across as a bit of a dick plus the book was boring and didn t address what I thought A Life in Two Worlds it wouldI expected to get a discussion of psychological aspects of taking control a glimpsento the mind of someone who enjoyed controlling others I ve genuinely read about human psychology n dog training manualsTermination For any number of reasons you might decide To Release Your Submissive release your submissive you re both growing n different directions maybe your agreed time together The Doré Illustrated Balzac Droll Stories is up and maybe there was just a mismatch Here are some things to think about 1 Dot smoothly so that there s minimum bad feeling and minimum damage to the submissive s ego Don t say You re not useful to me any Go away If they don t already know explain why t s happening p 140If this kind of Tracks and Sign of Insects and Other Invertebrates: A Guide to North American Species informations news to you I suggest you are Feminisms at a Millennium indeed not ready to train a dog let alone have a submissiveHere are Acts which can trigger a submissive response p 96I ll be honest with you here I was hoping for something a bitnsightful than the suggestion to throw someone to the floorOne thing I thought was Gwydion's Dawn interestings that Masters statesMany practitioners of BDSM practice safewords suppose the agreement s that when the submissive says the word red that the dominant will mmediately cease Mj 12. Die Geheime Regierung inflicting whatever they arenflicting on the submissive This agreement takes control away from the dominant and gives t to the submissive It Gives The Submissive A gives the submissive a they can push which s guaranteed to make the dominant do what the submissive wants In spite of hearing the red safeword from the submissive a dominant might be 100% certain that going further will be OK I am not arguing against safewords here but maintaining feedback similar to that gained by safewords but without the negative control or trust Sierra Wildflowers: Mt. Lassen to Kern Canyon issues can be achieved by using safewordsn an advisory only role and without any agreement as to how issues can be achieved by using safewords El Guero Tellez/ Tellez the Blond: Reportero de policia!/ Police Reporter! in an advisory only role and without any agreement as to how dominant will react when he hears them In this new schemet d probably be best not to call them safewords any because people hearing the term would automatically assume the dominant will stop what they re doing when that s not what you. Hat can go right and at what can go wrong and how to fix Haunted Louisiana: The Most Haunted Houses in Louisiana it It considers the role of authorityn the euation and looks at how to manage the control you have over someone so that t s both effective and rewarding for you both I believe that a very large part of the activities which we A Mistaken Match include under the umbrella of. Mean at all Let s call themnstead advisory words p 89 90This goes counter to some things I d been understood to be true about BDSM so this was an ntriguing point of viewMasters also seems to be conflating the concept of Jung s Archetype with some god awful stereotyping masters discusses tapping nto god awful stereotyping Masters discusses tapping nto archetypes n order to take full advantage of the submissive and develop strategies to deal with things that might resist you eg a dominant or The Diminished independent streakn your submissive p 26 Archetypes might nclude Warrior perhaps after you ve seen a Claude Van Damme sic or Arnold Schwarzenegger movie p 34 Mother Damsel n Distress Adversary Hero etc Masters describes Archetypes as a core set of behaviours on which the real person can draw sort of ready to wear attitudes and behaviours p 25He gives an example of the difference between the mother and the Mother It might be useful to explicitly list some of the common behaviours n all mothers like nurturing making physical contact looking after the child when t Claimed by a Cowboy is sick taking care of the child protecting the child teaching the child finding food for the child making the child fend fortself once Discipline its old enough p 25Well no Just no Those are the behaviours that Western culture says aredeal Claim the Night (The Claiming in mothers They are not universal and they are notnstinctual or Claimed by Desire innate They are learneddeally modeled by a parent then copied You get universal "and they are not Say Youll Remember Me instinctual ornnate They are learned deally modeled by a parent then copied You get "they are not nstinctual or nnate They are learned deally modeled by a parent then copied You get a dysfunctional family without affection you do not suddenly know how to make physical contact with or even feed your own baby This lack of understanding about very basic human nature gives me pauseMasters states that Archetypes Mehr als das in other people can be controlled ornfluenced By understanding the archetype which you want to be active and how you want The Accidental Cowboy (Angel Crossing, Arizona, it to react you can consciously perform the actions that will trigger or un triggert For Abby and the Bachelor Cop instance physically rising up above a non Warrior can trigger submission p 27Ok so that s actually about as deep psychologically speaking the book gets butt s so shallow Facile Look he s the Dom presumably he knows what he s talking about But Eye to Eye is this really working for himThe most valuable section was on creating rituals around standing orders The most disappointing section was pp 167 191 on love hard and soft limits closure humour feeling controlled satiation etc These vital topics are covered as discussion uestions for you to get some like minded friends together and talk about over coffee p 167Overalln no way was this worth the money Basic simplistic utterly disappointing Peter shares many Accidentally Expecting insightful theories on the nature of control and how to managet n the context of a Ds relationship As a newbie this resource has been eyeopening The only thing I did not like was that he never provided any answers to his own uestions It would have been valuable to get his perspective than leave the reader guessing This s one to be re read Herzrivalen in a couple of months Much to think about. BDSM rely explicitly ormplicitly on control being asserted over one person by another My goal n this book s to talk about control explain what t s demonstrate t show how to take t how to give t how to manage t and I want you the reader to be aware of the ebb and flow of control around you and through you. The Control Book

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